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Monday, July 18, 2005 Friendship>yeah friendship..
everyone wans it but when u feel u r losing grip u start to wonder whether u shd hold on to it...
aniway din hv a veri nice sun due to a fren wantin to break off all friendships wif me and my jc gd frens.. u may be wondering wat has happened so bad that makes him hv to resort to this? well starting all the way fr the beginnin.. me and 2 gals were classmates in jc.. and then we knew a gal fr another class whom we started building our friendships wif... so tat makes the 4 of us who usually hangs out tog... and then one day came along tis guy who was also fr another class who sort of likes to hang out wif us... weird rite.. a guy who wans to hang out wif a gp of 4 gals.. we all tot it was initially.. tot he liked one of us or wad.. hehehe.. but it turns out he likes a gal in his class so couldnt be.. aniway since then he juz hangs out wif us... goes out on outings wif us even tho he's the oni guy ard... altho we met alot less when we advanced on to uni.. we all still met once in awhile to keep in touch...
so here's the story... ever since 3 of us gals started wkrg (the last gal is doin her masters) we hv been bz wif our own lives.. we do hv gatherings and we do ask him along.. but as for sports or minor meetings to pass stuff here and there we din tink its necessary to ask every single person along... cos its oni bet those involved or see wat the activity is... well so he's been tellin one of my frens tat he feels left out cos we dun ask him out for most of those sports/mini meetings... well its nt cos we dun wan to but those meetings r either 2-3 pple or sports sessions tat we gals pref to do by ourselves... haiz can anyone tell him the meaning of privacy or gals' talk?
when me and my frens came back fr korea we got soft toys for him as well as for a gal who din go wif us due to work commitments... well guess wad? he complained abt the gift... gosh i am like tinking pple treat u as a fren then buy gift 4 u wat hv u got to complain abt?! u shd be happy tat someone even bothers getting u a gift out of sooo many frens! well he tinks its too childish altho we feel its the perfect gift for him cos it reminds us of him! cute mah... haiz... i pity the toy.. his owner dun appreciate him.. yeah u may be tinkin ok next time juz get sweets or food for him but then wat if he comes round and say: hey where's my gift? so bo sim!
*pengz*
as i was tellin them.. u really cant please everybody.. they wan this they dun wan tat.. wat u expect us to do? ok maybe juz ask him wat he wans the best la.. if dun hv means dun hv...
so aniway in his email to us he says he oni wans ONE proper reply on some 'evidence' to show tat we do treat him as a fren in oni ONE meeting and he will nt listen to anymore explanation after tat... and all of tis within ONE wk or he will discontinue the friendship... ok fine i still tink tis is reasonable... one meeting in one wk is betta than none.. so we tried to call him out on sun to discuss stuff but he juz simply dun wan to return our calls and sms... ok fine we wait till next wk then.. one of my fren tries to tok to him on msn on sun nite but he ignores her.. so i try addin him and tokin to him instead... great he replies.. by saying "sat 12pm if one dun come the rest dun need to come" !!! ok fine i go ask ard if everyone can make it.. one gal cant cos her fren ROM so i asked for sun instead.. he goes offline w/o replyin... ok great nw we wait again...
mon at work he went online and of cos i took the chance to ask him abt sun.. and he goes again: "sat 12pm if one dun come the rest dun need to come" *suppress* i am like did u see my reply mr? pple hv their own lives to lead and other frens as well... y cant u make an exception?! so he says sun is the day he wd break off the friendship so sat is the deadline...
*pengz*
ok so i check wif my fren and she says she can stay at most for an hr or so... ok great so nw is mr inflexible happy since we r accommodatin him? he says hes not cos as frens we shd be caring and nt juz be accommodating towards each other
*pengz**pengz*
ok ok great my fren said i was rather calm but i told her hey u cant see the smoke comin out of my nose manz.... nw everyone's upset cos of him.. even one of them cant eat or slp properly... i told him tat and he said he also cant eat or slp properly as he might be losing 4 frens instead of us juz losing 1!
*pengz*
ok i said we wdnt even bother if we din treat him as a fren...i noe we hv missed his bdays and gifts more than we do bet the rest of us... but did we ever treat him coldly? or badly? no i dun tink so... i dun even mind pple forgettin my bday.. so long as i tell myself i must nt forget theirs (i do forget sometimes but tats another issue).. i mean wats the big deal of receiving a present less or one tat is nt wat u like? he said its the sincerity tat counts but i feel tat no matter wat the gift is its aredi a blessing which shows pple appreciate u ard... if nt y wd they even bother goin out of trouble juz to get u one or send u a msg to say happi bday? they could hv saved the time, effort and $ on smth better... the bottomline is tat it comes fr the heart.. if pple dun wan to buy gift or say happi bday tats fine.. it juz shows u the difference bet those who really wanna take an effort anot...
aniway dunno y things get so out of hand... well we all tot maybe cos he is the oni child tats y he feels lonely easily and so treasures frens like us... juz hope tat all misunderstandings will be cleared up and everythin wil be resolved by sat.. # posted by MinGMinG | 10:36 PM

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