But if he can be genuinely supportive when you're at the top of the world -- or at the bottom -- that's important.

yeah so many times we complain abt our bfs' lack of physical beauty, talent or material possessions, but hw many times do we really appreciate and compliment him for always being there for us?

Sometimes though, when you have a new man on your mind, the reality is that you are a woman obsessed:

• you wake up to the thought of him
• you keep re-playing in your mind the last contact you two had
• at least once an hour you wonder where he is and what he’s doing
• all songs remind you of what it’s like to be with him, or without him
• if a phone call, text message, or email isn’t from him, you're disappointed
• one minute you’re certain that he wants you as much as you want him, the next minute you’re imagining that he doesn’t want you at all
• you wear your friends out talking about him
• you feel out-of-control and, at the same time, incredibly alive
• as you drift off to sleep at night, you imagine him in bed beside you